I really hit the jackpot with this guy. He’s a 2w3 (I think?) and he balances out my nineness beautifully. He is willing to get in there and do the hard things that I run away from to keep myself feeling peaceful. He also dotes over me and honors me more than I ever dreamed a husband could.
We truly make the best match.
But he doesn’t “complete” me.
My completeness existed long before we ever met. I just didn’t know it at the time.
My goal isn’t to get him to do a better job of making me feel special.
My goal is to understand my completeness... in every moment, no matter what he says or does...whether he gets it right or wrong.
This knowledge can only live within me. And if I choose to believe that and bring my complete self into our marriage, then I get to enjoy a much healthier and happier marriage.