Hi! I'm Heather Fillmore, The Enneagram 9
I'm on a mission to help the Peacemakers and People Pleasers of the world to stop sleepwalking through their lives and to start engaging and creating a life that feels much more purposeful.
Through my work as a Certified Life Coach and through my personal experience having a brain that is wired the same way, I help my clients to more purposefully navigate conflict and the daily stressors of life. Because let's face it: the more healthy, present peacemakers there are in the world, the better off it will be.
Click below for access to my free printable, "Thoughts of a Purposeful Peacemaker,"
a list of inspiring thoughts for Enneagram Nines to think each day to help ground them and move them into action.
I've got you.
Hello, my friend. Thank you for stopping by.
I want you to know that I completely understand your struggles as a Peacemaker. Because I'm one myself!
We are so needed in this world. We have a calm, accepting demeanor and people love this about us.
But we loathe conflict so much that we end up missing out on some of the best parts of the human experience.
Here are a few things that I understand about you, as an Enneagram Type Nine, or Peacemaker:
You may like there's no use speaking up or asserting yourself because no one cares what you have to say. You don't like feeling invisible.
You might have a hard time sticking to your to-do list. You might have lots of ideas and projects in your brain. But everything seems to pull you away and as a result, you're not finishing anything, really. A lot of your time is wasted just trying to make decisions about what you want to do!
You also may not know what your best strengths are, or how to use them to contribute to the world. It's as if you've completely forgotten what it feels like to want. Plus, fear of failure gets in the way.
I get you, friend. I was just like you in these ways.
Hiring a good life coach helped me stop feeling like I was on the back burner of my life. It helped me to wake up to my life and to find, and LOVE the true me.
I love what I learned about my thinking so much that I became specially trained to help others to do the same.
I'm a Certified Life coach, trained at The Life Coach School, the best of the best in creating coaches who can truly help people.
I choose to focus on helping people who identify as Peacemakers, or Enneagram 9's because I'm doing this work myself, and I understand just what it's like to struggle with the things you struggle with!
I'd love to help you feel better. Let's have a conversation!
Here's What Past Clients Are Saying
"I am so grateful I got to be coached by Heather! I feel more empowered with life and am excited to face the future, come what may! I really valued her opening my mind to push me to believe and take action on the dreams I want to accomplish! My emotional pool of stability is stronger now because of knowing how to better coach myself! It was worth every minute and penny!"
Heather helped me more than I can adequately describe. I’m more aware of my thoughts and how they influence my decisions. Now I understand the difference between thoughts and circumstances, and have the tools to work through things that I’m struggling with. These tools have helped me to let go of things that are out of my control and not judge myself so harshly for the parenting mistakes that I’ve made. I wish I had known these things when my kids were younger so that I could have helped them to process emotion and deal with difficult circumstances and people. Every mom needs these tools!!
"In just a few weeks of taking her class and having one-on-one coaching, I have seen the most remarkable changes in the way I think and have control over my feelings. My relationships with others have increased, my life and choices is 100% my ownership, and I have started facing my fears and creating the results I want in my life. Everyone needs a Heather!"
Before meeting with Heather, I struggled with indecision & overwhelm with no idea on how to move forward. I felt really stuck in trying to decide what to do with my life, since I was in the middle of a career change. Also, when I was in a funk, it would literally take days to figure out why I was feeling a certain way, and even then, I wasn't really in touch with myself.
My meetings with Heather started at just the right time. She showed me how to identify my feelings and to see where they come from, which has always been a huge struggle for me as a 9. I'm much more in tune with my thoughts and feelings now. When I feel something, I know where it's coming from almost immediately and many times I can help myself feel better quickly.
I'm now finally seeing progress, after months of indecision and inertia. As I'm making this progress, I'm feeling the discomfort that comes from growth, but Heather is right there to guide me through it all.
I feel so much more like a healthy 3 now, which I never thought I could. I no longer get wrapped up in wondering why I feel the way I do. My work with Heather has changed my life!
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